• Subconscious closeness: Our subconscious mind thinks in a primitive way. That’s why we may feel scared while watching a horror movie even though we are completely safe. The same goes for love, our subconscious minds think that physical closeness can result in emotional closeness. If someone likes you he will move towards you while talking to you until he becomes very close. If you stepped back he will unconsciously step forward in order to maintain the small distance between you.
• Automatic rapport establishment: We usually mirror the gestures of those who are close to us without noticing. Try watching the way you act with your close friends and you will notice that most of the time you are unconsciously mirroring each other. This doesn’t happen except with close friends or with people that you really like. If someone mirrors you even though he barley knows you then there is a very big chance that he likes you.
• My toe loves you: When someone likes another person he unconsciously tries to keep him in his line of sight. This results in letting his toes point to the person he likes wherever he is. Unconsciously, your mind thinks that as long as your toes are pointed somewhere then you can move towards that place easily. This can also happen the other way around , if you are at a job interview and you really want to leave then your toes will point towards the exit.
• Tons of body language signals: The person’s body language is controlled by his subconscious mind. Even if he was trying to ignore you his body language will reveal whether he truly likes you or not. Signs like hair tossing, being anxious around you and larger pupil size when seeing you can indicate that the person likes you. 
• Not filtering what should be filtered: Our minds receive 2 billion bits of information per second. For example you are currently noticing your browser’s window, your screen size, the noise coming through the window and the sound of the ticking of that clock near by you. If all of this information was processed by your subconscious mind you will become overwhelmed that’s why most of it is filtered and discarded until you end up with only 7 bits of information per second. This is why we never notice slight changes to someone’s appearance unless we are interested in him. If someone likes you he will notice the slightest changes in your appearance because this type of information won’t get filtered by his subconscious mind.

Sana before summer 2013 ends, maenjoy ko muna buhay ko:(

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(I Like Wolves Parka, MINKPINK shorts, Studded Bag - similar here, Merrin & Gussy Bracelet - right wrist, Wanderlust Bracelet - left wrist, Romwe Necklace, Jeffrey Campbell Boots)

This parka got to be my favourite of all my other parkas. It also has a detachable hood that is great for the winter to protect my ears from the crazy wind here in Melbourne. My ears always become numb and very painful if they’re exposed to the cold air, although our weather is not nearly as cold as most countries!

I wore this parka with these burgundy shorts from MINKPINK. I like the colour combination of burgundy/wine with khaki. I think they look absolutely amazing worn together that reminds me of autumn colours. How do you usually like to wear your parka?

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Admit it, we are all afraid to get hurt. We are all afraid to feel being rejected. But you know what? That’s what life is all about. We won’t feel pure or real happiness unless we experienced to get hurt first. Just like what they say, “How can you fall in love when you’re afraid to fall?” 

Believe me, you’d rather get hurt than feel so good with a false statement. Because you know what in the end, you will definitely know the truth and it will be more painful. So better face the truth that hurts instead of pampering yourself with things that could make you feel good at first but in the end will give you more pain..

Whatever circumstances passed by into our lives, whatever pain, sacrifices we have encountered, the truth is, we still believe in love. We have been hurt before and maybe there are times in our life that we thought giving up and not to fall in love is the best so thing to do.

But you know what? Let me tell you this. We will still fall in love with that particular person. Maybe not now, not tomorrow, but I know one day, we are going to find that certain person that would change our perception about everything - especially in love. They would probably make you feel like you have never loved before. And if that one person comes in, don’t ever think to let them go. Because maybe, yes maybe they will be the reason of that smile on your face…

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Sometimes, we just have to accept the fact that people will eventually forget everything about you. Pretend like you never existed and crossed their lives. All this time you thought that you’re special to them but the truth is, you’re not. And one day, you’ll cross paths and when your eyes met, you’re hoping that he would recognize you but he just looks away, throwing all the memories he had with you.